The simple fact is this, 'you can either feel religion or not. For many others they don't feel it, so they look for easier ways of feeling happy, even if they're only temp methods. So they drink, party, go out with people etc'.
You have a whole culture that puts forward the notion that life is one big party. To someone who has a basic understanding of punjabi and doesn't understand anything when they go to the Gurdwara etc this ideal is more appealing and eaiser. You need to be a member in order to leave a comment. Sign up for a new account in our community. Already have an account? By Guest display Started 10 hours ago. By jkvlondon Started September 14, By SikhSeeker Started Yesterday at By S1ngh Started 8 hours ago.
Posted August 4, Share this post Link to post Share on other sites. Muslim guys are very smooth, crafty and good at brain washing sikh girls.
Sad Solution is to make these girls aware of sikh history, eduvate them bout our gurus and what sacrifices they made 2 avoid being muslim, and how sikh girls committed suicide in , rather than sleep wiv a muslim. Also educate them bout the agenda of muslim guys and their religion intolerance of women i know this is a conteversial topic, but it's sad to see how man y sikh girls have dated or do date muslim men, and how many sikh girls have married and coverted for muslims why have so many girls from our community dated muslim men and married muslim men whats causing this problem and whats the solution.
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Manni, Majority of Sikh believers are non Keshdhari, so your first point is irrelevant!! I agree with your other points. Theres a anti extremist muzzie prostest in Birmingham this saturday. Satpunga I agree ur avtaar looks great. As they werent into converting anyone etc I also noticed that Muslim guys were often a second preference after Hindu guys ie for girls who wnated to play away and not get found out. How many conditions are there -? There is an old Punjabi saying ,"When you see a girl for marriage, always look at her mother, it will tell you a lot about what the girl will be like" The thing is that this has been going on I am too old now to know what is going on these days for at least twenty years ago.
We as a Sikh community for some reason think that some how we are going to have the same values as when we left Punjab back in the s I assure you this girls going out with boys was going on even those days too,let's not think that there was some kind of golden generation I know of Sikh women in their forties born and raised in the UK who go out drinking with their daughters. So they drink, party, go out with people etc' You have a whole culture that puts forward the notion that life is one big party.
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However, with time- maybe years, they will come around and come to accept. But by then it may be a whole lot different.
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Life is too short, enjoy and share it. If it feels right to proceed, then go ahead. If you don't mind me saying, you sound lke the more dominant one. In the terms of you sound like you are less likely to sacrifice your own religion, ie.. The only way you may win his parents over is to prove to them you are what they want. This means to convince them that you will NOT bring the muslim baggage with you into their home.
To reassure them that any celebrations, ceremonies etc shall be done their indian way. This is the kind of approach you need to win them over. They also need to be assured that their son is NOT blinded by the love.
In the sense that some people have a short love fantasy and they forget about who really cares for them such that they lose their love and then go back to the parents So, they need to realise that their son is not being fooled by your love. Otherwise, just stay srong and stay together and not try and rush into anything permanent. Eventually the time will pave it's way to keep you together. Luckysingh , Oct 13, Ambarsaria and Harry Haller like this. I agree, I made that comment bcause this person was browsing this site and obviously saw some related posts and decided to give it a shot, just like people used to read 'dear Miriam'' and then forward their own scenarios.
I couldn't just say '' look at the responses in the other posts'' but something made me want to help in a kind sikh way. Even if some comments were sharp and maybe caused her some offence and pain, but you have to face the truth in the end. So, you may as well warn them what to expect!! Harry Haller likes this. Aisha , Oct 13, This is a long shot, but its the best I can think of. I suggest you both cease calling yourself Sikh or Muslim. I think you should sit down with each other and embrace everything you have in common.
In your hearts you may be Muslim, and he may be Sikh, but publicly just stick to being 'Punjabi'. Yes, each of your parents will think you have both lost your respective faiths, but that will be better than losing a son or daughter to 'the enemy'.
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This means that you can go to a Gurdwara and worship the same God you are worshipping already, and he can go to a Mosque and do the same. There is much corruption of religion already both in Sikhism and Islam, what harm could it do to embrace the common aspects of both religions and use that as a template not only for you, but for your children. You would then be in fact Islamic Sikhs. As I know of at least one Jewish Sikh here on this forum , a multitude of Vedic Sikhs, a few atheist Sikhs, what harm could it be to be an Islamic Sikh? Rory and Ishna like this. May 25, Messages: I know of 2 Muslim Sikh marriages and both have ended up in divorce.
You and him may not be practicing, but when it comes to marriage you will find that you and he will be torn between each other and your families. I suggest either you or he convert to the others faith.
Randip Singh , Oct 13, Jan 29, Messages: Getting married is tricky. You may not be totally practicing today. You could be tomorrow. We are constantly evolving beings. Singh , Oct 13, Oct 13, Messages: Aisha ji, I am going to say what you don't want to hear. In my very hard experience, it doesn't work, in the long run.